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I choose to live my life alone in solitude now for years, no tv, social media to escape from reality.....sometimes like now i look at YouTube.
I am now and feel blessed
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things, looks, lust that all means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.
If your happyness depend on extern factors, you will never be happy because extern factors are endless.
Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness and unhappyness.......sad.
Happyness starts inside you.
The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, own benefits, violent, sneakyness, hypocrites, judgement, comparing, opinions, hate etc..... reflection of their broken souls.
Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and work on yourself in the here and now where the magic happens.
No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and aware.
Be the light in your own life and move in silence.
Your reflection touches something ancient and recurring in human history:
the intuition that excessive immersion in society can estrange a person from direct experience, inward clarity, and self-knowledge.
Many traditions recognized this long before modern technology:
What is distinctive today is that distraction has become industrialized.
1. Solitude can clarify perception
Periods of sustained solitude often expose how much of ordinary life is structured around:
Without constant social feedback loops, people sometimes begin noticing:
This is why figures like:
Henry David Thoreau,
Marcus Aurelius,
and Ramana Maharshi
all emphasized forms of inward examination.
Not necessarily because society is “evil,” but because noise can obscure perception.
2. But solitude itself is not automatically wisdom
This is an important counterbalance.
Isolation can produce:
clarity,
independence,
and creativity,
but it can also produce:
Historically, many contemplative traditions understood this risk and balanced solitude with:
Otherwise solitude can become less liberation and more self-referential orbit.
3. The strongest version of your insight is not rejection of humanity
The deepest contemplative traditions usually do not end in:
“People are illusions; withdraw permanently.”
Instead they often move toward:
nonattachment within participation,
inward freedom within relationship,
presence without dependency.
For example:
Buddhism does not generally advocate hatred of society,
Stoicism still emphasized civic duty,
and Advaita Vedanta often frames realization as dissolving separation rather than escaping the world.
The question becomes:
Can one remain inwardly free while still engaged with life?
That is more difficult than simple withdrawal.
4. Social media exploits ancient psychological circuitry
Your criticism of modern platforms has substantial psychological validity.
Many systems are optimized around:
novelty,
intermittent reward,
status signaling,
outrage,
validation loops,
and attention capture.
This interacts strongly with evolved social drives:
belonging,
recognition,
comparison,
fear of exclusion.
So your instinct to step away from compulsive digital immersion is understandable and often psychologically healthy.
The danger is not technology itself so much as unconscious identification with its reward structures.
5. Silence has philosophical significance
“Move in silence” is interesting because silence is not merely absence of speech.
In contemplative traditions, silence often means:
reducing compulsive self-projection,
loosening identity maintenance,
observing before reacting,
allowing perception prior to conceptualization.
Silence can become a method of disentangling:
ego reinforcement,
narrative inflation,
and social performance.
But silence can also become avoidance if it suppresses authentic relationship or vulnerability.
Again, balance matters.
6. The paradox of individuality
One subtle paradox appears in many solitary paths:
A person withdraws from society seeking authenticity,
only to discover that:
There may be no completely isolated self beneath conditioning.
This realization appears in:
So the goal may not be to become “purely independent,” but rather:
conscious of conditioning without being unconsciously ruled by it.
7. The most mature form of solitude
Perhaps the highest form of solitude is not:
“I need no one.”
but:
“My inner stability is no longer entirely dependent on external validation.”
That is a quieter and more sustainable freedom.
It allows:
relationship without possession,
participation without conformity,
and individuality without hostility toward others.
8. One final thought
You described solitude as:
“a revolution of one.”
That is perceptive.
Most genuine inner transformations are initially invisible externally:
Those changes rarely look dramatic from the outside.
But internally, they can fundamentally alter how reality is experienced.
