NDM

 

"The knowingness that has come over you unknowingly is your consciousness. What do you witness first? It is the consciousness that ‘you are,’ and after that you witness the world. The form of a human being is the form of Brahman incarnate. Catch hold of THAT which is known prior to any other thing. That is the one that listens."

— Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Meditations with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj ~ April 30, 1978

Suggestion

If these quotes being posted are confusing to you, just remember, when Nisargadatta says, "The knowingness that has come over you unknowingly" he's not talking to you, the person.

He's talking to YOU, the unmanifest that currently is manifesting as Pure Consciousness.

And when he says, "Catch hold of THAT, which is known prior to any other thing," he's reminding YOU to catch hold of yourself as the Unmanifest Absolute.

If you do that when you (YOU) read these quotes, then it all will soon become unmistakably clear that you (YOU) are not the body or the person you think YOU are.

GS. Lyf has given pitai. TWBD

GS. Pure Being untainted by stain of doership

GS. Do own best. Leave the rest

Prep to dth tomro. TWBD

DTH B YTC

 B

• The experience described centers on profound caregiving, presence, and witnessing death closely after a long relationship.

• Caring for a partner in hospice can create an intense state of continuous attentiveness and emotional grounding, especially when the person is fully dependent.

• Sitting with someone at the moment of death often becomes a high-impact memory, repeatedly revisited over time.

• The perception of something like a “whisp of smoke” at death is something that can occur in extreme emotional and perceptual states, where the brain is processing multiple rapid changes (breath cessation, facial relaxation, environmental cues) and can assign meaning to subtle visual shifts.

• In medical terms, what is observed at death is the cessation of respiration and circulation, followed by rapid physiological changes in the body.

• The conclusion that “the body is empty stuff” reflects a philosophical interpretation of death, commonly found in materialist and some contemplative frameworks:

  • The living person is understood as an ongoing process (breathing, awareness, metabolism).

  • When those processes stop, what remains is a body no longer sustaining subjective experience.

• Repeated reflection on such an event is common in bereavement processing, especially when the death was witnessed directly and occurred over a short, intense period.

• The shift described toward mindfulness, kindness, and preparation for one’s own death aligns with a broader pattern seen in many contemplative traditions:

  • Awareness of mortality can increase emphasis on presence and ethical living.

  • “Good death” is often understood as reduced fear, reduced resistance, and greater acceptance.

• The narrative of the wife reaching peace and acceptance is consistent with many hospice experiences, where psychological adjustment often occurs in the final stages of terminal illness.

• The idea that “letting go of ego narrative brings joy” reflects a contemplative insight theme:

  • Suffering is reduced when identification with self-story loosens.

  • Attention shifts from control and resistance toward acceptance and presence.

• The ongoing personal practice described—using that experience to shape present-moment awareness and compassion—is a form of meaning-making after loss, where memory becomes a guide for how to live.

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Funny how we spend years planning for retirement but almost no time preparing for death

B

My first wife (of 38 years) died in 2021. She was paralyzed and in Hospice care at our home. I cared for her like an infant in her last weeks. I sat with her as she died. The mind is truly not the brain. When she breathed her last breath a couple of seconds went by and I saw what looked like a whisp of smoke come out of her mouth. I absolutely knew that she was gone. That body was clearly just empty stuff at that point. I think about that experience every day. As I age I am mindful to be kind and present. To create a good death. Her death process was rapid, in my perspective. From cancer diagnosis to death was just a few weeks. Hard weeks. I watched her come to grips with her reality. I tried to help where I could. At the end she was at peace with death. There is a joy in letting go of our ego narrative. I work with this in my own life.

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M TIGHT JEANS X TINGLING THIGH SYNDROME

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The statement is partly true, but oversimplified.

• Very tight clothing, including skinny jeans, can sometimes compress the lateral femoral cutaneous nerve, causing a condition called meralgia paresthetica. Symptoms include tingling, numbness, burning, or pain on the outer thigh. (Mayo Clinic)

• This condition has been nicknamed “tingling thigh syndrome” or “skinny jeans syndrome” in popular media. (CBS News)

• However, skinny jeans are not the only cause. Obesity, pregnancy, diabetes, tight belts, tool belts, injuries, and certain surgeries can also compress the same nerve. (Mayo Clinic)

• In many cases, symptoms improve after removing the source of pressure, such as wearing looser clothing. (Mayo Clinic)

• Persistent or repeated compression can sometimes lead to longer-lasting nerve problems, but permanent nerve damage from skinny jeans alone is uncommon. (CBS News)

More accurate statement:
Wearing very tight skinny jeans can, in some cases, compress a nerve in the thigh and cause tingling, numbness, or burning sensations (meralgia paresthetica), but this is relatively uncommon and usually improves when the pressure is removed. (Mayo Clinic)