Sunday 14 April 2013

RD BK QUIET - SLF- FTHR MD BD- ALONE STRGGLE SINCE 12-BITTER GEN FRM PARTITION

/////////////////I'm an introspective person.
I'm not an extrovert.
- John Thaw



////////////////CARNEGIE=


SALESMAN EXTROVERT CULTURE



///////////////////////A WORLD THAT CANT STOP TALKING


/////////////////////MYTH OF CHARISMATIC LEADERSHIP



/////////////////////WHEN COLLABORATION KILLS CREATIVITY



///////////////////////Cain is an introvert. It has always been, she writes, "private occasions that make me feel connected to the joys and sorrows of the world, often in the form of communication with writers and musicians I'll never meet in person".



/////////////////////SOLITUDE IMP TO CREATY



///////////////////////TIRED OF BEING CLOBBERED



/////////////////////////CHOOSE SANITY OPTION



////////////////////////We introverts attempt to emulate extroverts, and the stress of not being "true to ourselves" can make us physically and mentally ill.



//////////////////////CLOSURE



////////////////////////FEAR OF PUBLC HUMILITN IS A POTENT FORCE



////////////////////AT HBS- socialising is "an extreme sport".



//////////////////////FULL COFFE SHOP- ASSOCIATIVE LEAPS


///////////////////////extroverted parents have been known to send their introverted children to psychiatrists to have their introversion "treated" out of them.




///////////////////////////YR BIOLOGY, YR SELF


/////////////////////////think extroverts are great because they're charismatic and chatty and self-assured, but in fact they're comparatively narcissistic and unthoughtful and we're committing a grave error structuring our society around their garrulous blah.



//////////////////////////All of us as consumers have gotten spoiled, ... We expect customized goods and services at commodity prices. The only way we can do that is to cut the fat out of our price structure.”

Robert Rubin quote



/////////////////////////Group-think favours the dominant extrovert. The loudest, most socially confident and quickest on their feet win the day, whereas the contemplative and quietly well-informed tend not to get a word in.



//////////////////////////IS TEMPERAMENT DESTINY?



////////////////////////////FUEL + O2= CO2 + WATER



////////////////////////// "You Can't Ask a Teacher for Help Unless Everyone in Your Group Has the Same Question" read a sign in one New York classroom she visited.



////////////////////////SLOW TO WARM UP



////////////////////////////Cain says we're "especially empathic". We think in an "unusually complex fashion". We prefer discussing "values and morality" to small talk about the weather. We "desire peace". We're "modest". The introvert child is an "orchid – who wilts easily", is prone to "depression, anxiety and shyness, but under the right conditions can grow strong and magnificent".




//////////////////////////////BEYOND TEMPERAMENT


////////////////////////EYESENCK, ARAS - AROUSAL - ASC RET ACTIVTING SYSTEM



//////////////////////// Jonathan Safran Foer, whose anti-meat lectures climax in a suggestion that we should try if possible to eat one or two vegetarian meals a week. Give me this kind of considered good sense over showy radical polemicism any day.



////////////////////////OWN SWEET SPOT- WHERE  U R OPTIMALLY STIMULATED



///////////////////////TOO SENSITIVE FOR YR OWN GOOD



/////////////////////////////fMRI studies. As any neurologist will tell you, we still have very little idea about why certain bits of our brains light up under various circumstances.



//////////////////////LOW- REACTIVE PHYSIOLOGY OF COOL- ASTRONAUTS HR 110 AT TAKE OFF



/////////////////////MESSERS VS MESSEES



/////////////////////////////AMBIVERT



////////////////////////////I often let calls go through to voice mail. I do my best work on my own. I don't enjoy multitasking. I seem to care less than my peers about wealth, fame and status …"



/////////////////////////When I point to well known introverted leaders, Warren Buffett is at the top of my list. One of the richest men in the world seems the most grounded to me.


/////////////////////WLL STRT CRASHED BUT WRRN BFFT PROSPERED



//////////////////RESTORATIVE NICHES- LVNG RM SOFA, STUDY ROOM REVO CHAIR



///////////////////my crushing need for "restorative niches" such as toilet cubicles is eerie



////////////////////INTROVERTS BETTER AT DELAYING GRATIFICN- WHT ABT 81-82 CNMA CRSS?



/////////////////////BLAME IT ON PRTHO



///////////////////REWARD OR THREAT ORIENTED



///////////////////////Threat vigilance is a trait most often identified with the neuroticism scale in Big 5 and high-reactive brain types. If you have a low-reactive brain and therefore find the world less concerning the 'theory' (Kuhnen, Knutson et al) is that you are reward orientated.



///////////////////////So many play up their introvertness to appear interesting. They only say 'yes', 'absolutely,' etc. and then their conversation partner (usually a loud guy) gushes how great a talk it was with them´.



///////////////////////IN A GENTLE WAY U CAN SHAKE THE WRLD- GANDHI



/////////////////////When you are introverted an dbad at lighthearted conversations, it is always easier to ask questions and listen to others, rather than risk killing the fun mood with something intense.. and people love to talk about their own opinion, which is really why they think the conversation was great



/////////////////////////SOFT POWER



////////////////////////WSTRN CULTR INDIVIDUAL ORGANISED



///////////////////////////AGGRESSIV POWR BTS U UP, SFT PWR WNS  U OVR


///////////////////////FREE AND FIXED TRAITS



////////////////////////////FREE TRAIT AGREEMENT= OCC ACTING OUT OF CHARACTR



/////////////////////////At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s




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