I ness to One ness

 It sounds like you may mean “I need oneness. Advaita” — as in the idea of non-duality.

Advaita Vedanta teaches that the deepest self (Atman) and ultimate reality (Brahman) are not separate — the feeling of separateness is seen as an illusion. “Oneness” in this context doesn’t mean becoming something new; it points to recognizing an underlying unity that is already there.

Some classic ideas associated with Advaita:

• Non-duality: the observer and the observed are not ultimately separate.
• “Tat Tvam Asi” (“You are That”): a famous teaching from the Upanishads.
• Witnessing awareness: noticing thoughts and emotions without identifying fully with them.
• Inquiry: asking “Who am I?” to examine what remains beyond roles, thoughts, or labels.

People often explore Advaita through teachers like Adi Shankaracharya, Ramana Maharshi, or modern talks and meditation practices.

If you meant something different by “one ness,” tell me a bit more about what you’re looking for.